What an awful person she was to do this with the aim of hurting others - mentally and as it turns out physically. In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. If she'd had someone to listen to her - really listen - this might not have happened. A suicide note has also been recovered by the police. Published on : 24 Feb, 2023, 12:39 pm. before typing odd corny comments. Or do you think it's more 'compassionate' to just tut-tut and let the suicidal get on with it? I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. Do you know how much money her family is going to have to pay to the train company for this? All of you who said "she was selfish" knew her right? She was a resident of Paharganj area of Delhi. I'm glad to see some compassion being expressed; who knows what unspoken burdens people carry around. An unidentified woman was injured when she jumped in front of a southbound No. The Japan you do not see everyday up there in the mountains is incredibly stressful. Bihar News: - . Thank You. There is a good deal of toing and froing.. Who "died" and made you the queen of Japanese suicide ethics/morality? Auto Loans by Suruga Bank do not require permanent residency to apply. There was no criminality. A Great Western Railway employee, Anna Bodja, who witnessed the tragic death, said: 'I heard the fast train approaching, I heard the announcement and I saw the announcement on the board. Zara's husband announces a two-month tour with his rugby podcast 'We met a Princess'! What is wrong wih you people, did you grow up in the 19th century? Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression.". Very useful skills indeed! This woman has, through her actions, seriously affected many others. UPPER WEST SIDE, NY A woman died after jumping in front of a train at the West 72nd Street and Broadway subway station Thursday night, an NYPD spokeswoman told Patch. It is always good to be prepared for this happening to anyone close to you as this is so hard and frustrating to deal with. I am not trying to be rude but making statements like "taking it out on others" is ridiculous. By 6pm, CCTV footage showed that Ms Redmond was with Melsadie and she tried to book an Uber toBeaconsfield and made a call to her mother. If you have a communicable disease it can't be helped and you need to get treatment, but it doesn't excuse you if you intentionally infect others. With a train you just stand on the platform and make that sudden, crucial decision to step or jump forward without anyone having the chance to stop you (unless you WANT to be stopped). If you've been impacted by this story, Samaritans is a confidential emotional support service for anyone in the UK and Ireland. Mabye we shoudl point our fingers at that rather tahn the victim. A big tsunami like Fukushima every year. She was behind on her rent, etcetera. over 100 people off themselves everyday, many use trains. 2) The person could commit the act suddenly and without others knowing what is about to happen. Police had few immediate details, but said the person may have jumped in front of the subway. Nevertheless, that doesn't excuse the fact that Japan is in dire need of social support services, anywhere from distress centers for abused women or victims of rape to trauma counselling and psychiatric treatment. and even "Didnt he/she love me enough to try and get better/help themselves" can drive people to their own dark place. We don't know anything about her life I sort of agree that we don't have to critise herBut this happened to my husband many years ago - the guy standing next to him suddently approached the train as it was about to stop and the train hit him in the head. . ( ) A. bad B. badly C. good D . While it is a sad event, the method in which she did was selfish to say the least. Thank You. Mother-of-four killed herself by jumping in front of train at packed station moments after sending a text and handing her bag to a stranger Woman was killed yesterday at Wigan North Western . I am even more glad like i choose to work from home, never socialse anymore and just be with those who matter. . The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly . Some like yourself may contemplate and be abel to stop the urges and possibly get help For soemthey may get further and feel there is no help or they are so far gone into the darkness to be helped. Wow! She then returned to the non-public access platform at 9.29pm and once again lifted Melsadie over the gate, but this time also climbed over the gate herself. Instead of complaining about a few delays to your business i would advise learning a bit about what goes through peoples minds at this time.the fact that someone would actually go through with the act says a lot. What annoys me that this government ignores this problem like so many others, bullying, shody reactors and so on. If the person can redirect their thoughts to include others, they're more likely to realise that things aren't that bad and so less likely to actually commit suicide. The lives that are always involved, the innocent people that have to suffer because the person wants to go out in style. Leighane Melsadie Redmond, 27, had been taken to court over unpaid bills before jumping onto the tracks at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019. And if you want to do something to help someone before they get in this desperate position, a little bit of kindness and understanding really helps. 'We were aware that pregnancy was a difficult time for her in terms of her mental health. why?". But then, I think maybe people who do this are actually going for the effect - going out with a bang, so to speak. Suicides usually choose JR over other lines as 100kph trains thunder through the stations. 2-8-16 Higashi-Kanda Northbound 3 trains are running local from Times Square-42nd Street to 96th Street. Ignorant selfish act, saw this on the news last night looked horrible and the people that got hit by her flying body must be traumatised. A heavily pregnant mother-of-two jumped in front of a high speed train after discovering her unborn baby girl could have a facial deformity, a coroner heard. maybe we should look at why it is getting worse and what we can do. There are many selfish ways of committing suicide which involve pain or difficulty or 'meiwaku' for others (actually the English contains a nuance not in Japanese, ie of committing a crime, so perhaps 'ending your own life' might be a better way to phrase it than 'committing suicide'). Remove the stigma and try to help society understand it is the same as any other illness, nothing to be ashamed of. would you agree that the definition of selfish could also be applied to the people here who are lacking in consideration for someone who was pushed to the ultimate extreme of taking her own life? papigiulio: "why do people consistently suicide by jumping in front of a train? I was going to call the mental health service team but she said she did not want them to visit, she said they interfered with her marriage and her pregnancy,' he said. Shortly afterwards, the mother and daughter were seen to enter Taplow station from Approach Road, where they remained at the station for around 20 minutes. ". We should never condemn the mentally ill this way because it causes trouble to passengers etc. A bullied teen's last tweet revealed her despair from relentless teasing two days before she jumped in front of a train in New York City. Sorry to sound flippant, but every life lost is (often) another 3,4,5 scarred. If your going to do it don't risk others. The week a train derailment poisoned an entire town in Ohio, the transportation secretary, the man in charge of preventing train derailments, held a press conference attacking White construction . (Audio in Hindi)NDTV is one of the leaders in the production and broadcasting of un-biased and comprehensive news and entertainment programmes in India and abroad. DS Rees confirmed that such an arrangement had been agreed, before taking the hearing through the hours leading up to Ms Redmond's death. At this low point rational thinking is almost gone, the main thing is to end the life. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. That wouldn't be selfish, it would be malevolent. Suicide is complex, but without a doubt, there needs to be FAR more done here for mental illness. If you have lived throug or witnessed a love one living through the hell of severe mental illness you would know why i say these things. How is this not a fundamentally very selfish act? 'Is it right that the outcome of that was she had an arrangement whereby she would be able to repay it down by monthly 143 contributions?'. Police are currently trying to identify the deceased. ( ) A. for B. in C. during D. since. ultimately used her flying corpse as a projectile with which to smash through a shop door with the sole intention of injuring and traumatizing four people inside the store. If you have a complaint about the editorial content which relates to A tragedy and a waste of a life. The only selfish people are those who criticised this poor woman. So yes, prevention starts in the early years. ( ) A. left B. arrived C. went D. returned. Of course, when you have spiralled into the pit of depression and all capability for rational thought has gone, it is not possible to see it that way. Gleams Akihabara 703 She was seen wrapped in a poncho walking hand-in-hand with daughter Melsadie, who was wearing alittle furry parker jacket with a winter hat and gloves, at the station one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Copyright 2023 Nexstar Media Inc. All rights reserved. Of course she didn't. I think most people sadly have had some kind of contact with mental illness and/or suicide by the time they reach "our age". More people rush to help the duo, and they are eventually pulled onto the platform. 'After the birth of our second child, she relapsed and was admitted to hospital again. CHENNAI: A 36-year-old woman attempted suicide by jumping in front of an EMU train with her 4-year-old son near Urapakkam on Thursday. I very much doubt that she took her own life so that people would miss their flights from Narita. Train-related accidents may not be common, but they occur in New York City. A Gannett Company. This really involves picking her right up to the extent of leaning over. So please don't accuse me of not understanding, I understand it all far too well. Compassion is free. I understand it completely. Antonia Paget For Mailonline Of course it is sad that she took her life in this manner but people are not rational whne they do this. Based on the collateral damage you think was somehow purposely premeditated? Mumbai: Woman commits suicide by jumping in front of a train. On Monday afternoon, a woman in her 20s, whose name has not yet been released, died when she was struck by Amtrak Train 93, according to rail officials. Those ads you do see are predominantly from local businesses promoting local services. It's quite possible there were no witnesses as this is a looong platform (it's my home station) and probably there weren't so many people waiting on it at 10am. Prince Harry boasts about finding 'freedom and happiness' and jokes about reincarnation in unseen TV Behind-the-scenes at fashion week with the Spencers! steve: "Here is a bit of advice to those who seem to think this woman was selfish or a bad person. Let us support getting your first car loan here in Japan. Perhaps some high profile celebrities talking about their mental health issues/treatment? A person contemplating suicide is so full of their own problems they have no room left to consider others. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. Perhaps not by those who say, "well just make it legal". But before that can even happen, the stigma in society of seeking help needs to be broken. tired of the traffic backed up from suicides? I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. There are times when the person is such a low point that death seems the only option. Editors' Code of Practice. If you are screwed up, go into that forest at the foot of Fuji and do us all a favour PS - don't wanna sound callous, she may have been mentally sick, but it's possible this selfish woman has destroyed other people's lives. It is terribly sad that the woman felt she had to end her life, and needless to say a horrible experience for the four people hit by her body. As a result, you apparently cannot show compassion for this woman and want to judge her by logical measures. I place it on the society that failed to recognize the symptoms of her impending self-destruction (or worse, chose to ignore them), the cultural history of seeing suicide as a viable option to ending one's problems, and the lack of support in general for the prevention of suicide and the need to change this ancient mindset. Terrible and selfish. herefornow - Taking time to put one's affairs in order first and considering how to end it all without harming others are both ways for the suicidal person to put their problems in perspective, see things in a different light and at the very least give themselves a chance to rethink what they're about to do. Cleo - would you agree that the definition of selfish could also be applied to the people here who are lacking in consideration for someone who was pushed to the ultimate extreme of taking her own life? If it happened to your loved one would you like them to be called "selfish" and other nasty words? cleo - You're right. No counseling available in this country? Cut her some slack. www.ndtv.com. 'When she was well, we never had confrontations, the only time we argued was when she didn't want to take her medication. You can reach out and feel 'connected' to the world and to people via the myriad social streams available, but that doesn't feel to me like real engagement. For that you are lucky. Sad story. I applaud the sheer ingenuity of this theory! New Delhi: A woman jumped in front of the Delhi Metro train at Model Town Metro station on Saturday and committed suicide. I find it utterly ridiculous that people call this woman "selfish" based on the fact that she somehow, in her morbidly depressed state of mind Selfish? Rangers trade Kravtsov, waive Leschyshyn, Giants, Jets fans among most passionate in NFL: report, PIX11 talks with Adam Korsak ahead of NFL Combine, Moose on the Loose: New York basketball is fun again. Mr Wade said: 'The next thing she appears to do, she does when no member of the public is in her immediate vicinity. It is thinking like that that results in Japan having such a pathetic mental health system, and mental illness still having such a stigma here. It's a cultural flaw. Describing CCTV footage showing the mother and daughter today, Assistant Coroner Ian Wade KC told Beaconsfield Coroner's Court: 'Sadly, what we can see is that she gathers Melsadie up in her arms and jumps carefully from the platform down to what is known as the forefoot and is then struck by the train.'. 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No. Please look at the time stamp on the story to see when it was last updated. Stevea great comment from you that doesn't go on to blame her parents and childhood! It was found later from other CCTV camera rec. The inquest heard that a member of the public who was walking down the stairs briefly paused to look at Ms Redmond, but then moved on. It's simple ease of access. At those speeds there's going to be a mess. My life is more complicated>. But what she did was still selfish in the end, and many others are paying for and WILL pay for it. I think they should think about others rather be self centered. I personally think the whole 'ganbare' and 'I must not make a scene' are partially to blame. i pity those who commit suicide though it may be selfish to others but yeah, they are not in a sound mind to think about that. 'Selfish' is a description, not a judgement. Japan has a major cultural flaw. Describing the CCTV footage, DS Rees told the inquest: 'Her behaviour, as a police officer watching, was not normal. Seems the bottom line in some of these posts is "I don't care about you or what you do, just don't inconvenience us.". (Thanks to Ben Orlove for the tip.) Felicia Garcia, 15, was reportedly tormented by her peers at Tottenville High School, who teased her about sexual encounters with football players, police sources told the New York Daily News. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. 1. Surely "taking it out" on someone implies intent Smorkian? Regardless of her true mental state prior to jumping, I place blame for neither the damages nor the resulting trauma on that woman. That's truly sad. Life had got too much for her and she did the only thing she could think of to put a stop to it. Just imagine buying bottled water in a train station, than suddenly get hit with blood and body parts. It's a shame that because of her actions others were hurt, and with the Japanese being as they are, I doubt as well that others were traumatized by this woman's actions as well. Did she intend to hurt 4 other people in her attempt to destroy herself? We are no longer accepting comments on this article. Morre and more we see a lack of empathy for those who suffer.Modern society? By someone. Many here seem to think that suicide is a matter of choice as is the means to commit the act. Don't you think that's part of the problem here guys? 1) Trains are of course very common, and very frequent, and in the case of express trains very fast. Obviously the woman had problems, but if she left a family behind not only will she have shocked them deeply by killing herself, but she might be making them lose a lot more than that as well. Reports suggested that the woman was accused in a case. Plus, in Japanese society, past and present, there is NO stigmata (sic) on suicide. But she couldn't be part of that society, could she? The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. They charge millions of yen for stoppages, extra work, etc I was in a rather cynical mood while typing that out in a frenzy. . TOKYO. The unidentified woman was observed leaping in front of a. I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. According to CCTV footage, she was waiting for the train's arrival and at 3 pm, she jumped in front of a running train. This site is part of Newsquest's audited local newspaper network. Following the pregnancy news, the mother-of-two decided she didn't want to deliver her third child at Wexham Park Hospital, instead wanting to transfer to the Royal Berkshire Hospital in Reading, yearning for a different experience from her first two births, the coroner heard. Make it "trendy"??! British Transport Police had declared the deaths a suspicious incident and an investigation was launched by their Major Crime team. & yes some people can't help being poor, but Geez being poor is better than being Dead its a NO Brainer. Data returned from the Piano 'meterActive/meterExpired' callback event. I'm sure she didn't mean to be knocked back onto the platform when she jumped. Four shoppers sustained minor injuries in the incident. 'Usually when she had an episode, the signs were lack of sleep, lack of appetite and being angry but she was normal before and after the incident,' husband Jude said at the inquest into her death on Thursday. where a woman and a child were at various subway stations yesterday . It is being investigated by police as a suspected case of 'child destruction . I bet that's exactly what she wanted. Down right scary !!!!! If you are dissatisfied with the response provided you can And again, now you're going to have several other people at least suffer from stress, trauma (possibly even PTSD) and mental troubles caused by this woman's actions. When do the clocks change in 2023? The BTP officer said that the mother and daughter again spent time walking from platform to platform before climbing the footbridge, where Melsadie was seen looking 'distressed' and was picked up by Ms Redmond. She needed help, and should have had easy access to it -- no one debates that. See, I bet this woman wished she could have been part of that society too, going to work, having a routine, getting on with an ordinary life, having someone to complain to, to vent, to get it out of her system. You apparently simply cannot empathize with someone who has stopped thinking rationally. Ppl who experienced this will be traumatised. A mess, yes. sadly it does. EXCLUSIVE: Lanzarote sticks to its guns and insists it WILL limit tourists and move away from relying on Nearly half of British viewers believe ethnic minorities and LGBT communities are over-represented on TV, Is YOUR wood burner at risk? Parents as well as educational institutions have a responsibility for the wellfare of their youth, not just their grades. I was trying to get rid of her sadness.'. The following service changes were implemented, according to the MTA: If you or somebody you know are having suicidal thoughts call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or call 1-888-NYC-WELL (9355) to speak with a counselor. I doubt she was thinking along those lines though. This woman was obviously highly coordinated, had excellent timing and gymnastics ability. inaccuracy or intrusion, then please It is true that mental illness is still taboo in Japan and that is a lot of the problem. When you are in a state of mind that jumping in front of a train is the best solution to your problems, you are in a very dark place indeed, and rational thought would be a struggle I'm guessing. A mother who was behind on her rent and bills cradled her three-year-old daughter in her arms and jumped" on to train tracks, where they were both killed, an inquest has heard. Perhaps this is too 'clean' or 'romantic'. |. Kate Oh invites you to a Small Works Group Exhibition for the New York K-Art Festival! 3. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. That's gotta be the first time that's ever happened. Other people after all have nothing to do with their grief. "Why couldnt I help?" the point is that he couldn't sleep for a couple of days and said he couldn't get the sound of the train hitting the guy's head out of his mind..he still sometimes speaks about it. I wish they talk to me. Theres NO reason to be a coward & end it. Several witnesses . I bow to those with deep enough compassion. According to police, the woman, Premalatha of Senthil Nagar in Urapakkam, had quarrelled . Then again, she may not have been depressed at all. Mr Hector Bradley . That's truly sad. People who commit suicide are selfish and in this case she even hurt innocent bystanders. Why, of course it is! Everyone could feel and understand each other as much as they understand themselves and events like this would probably cease to exist. 'On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.'. Just another day in Japan. Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). Woman killed by oncoming train in Bensonhurst: NYPD. Take the quiz: How well do you know LIV Golf? Subsequently, a train slows to a halt on the tracks. Beaming Princess of Wales watches a young boy backflip during St David's Day Mike Tindall's latest money-making scheme! Just two days after her eldest son's 10th birthday, the mother-of-two kissed her children goodbye as they went to school and she walked to Slough railway station, the coroner heard on Thursday. alot of people do this to make other people suffer & have regret. She may simply have chosen this route because of her belief that it would both end her suffering and take the burden of supporting her away from society and/or whatever family she had. What a waste! I am so sorry for this poor soul and the people affected, particularly the poor driver who had to witness this.
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